i can't help but notice all the girl's around me.
mostly girl's in high school (no offense to my younger friends).
girls who think they're so much better than everyone else.
girls who say terrible rude remarks towards other people to intentionally hurt, embarrass, or humiliate them.
girls who give the rest of us a bad name.
yesterday, my room mate showed me some awful things said on facebook.
girl's fighting with one another.
rude remarks,
and treating each other opposite of human beings.
tonight at work was depressing to me.
the high school game got over, and cheerleaders, players,
and all sorts of friends came in to get some yogurt.
as i swept and wiped tables among them,
there was like 4 or 5 different groups of friends.
they were ALL gossiping, talking badly about someone rather than their own lives.
to be honest, it doesn't make sense to me.
i know we all do it.
i'm not saying i don't.
we all gossip,
we all talk bad about others,
but it HURTS others.
what's the point?
It amazes to me to see high school seniors, and think,
"holy cow..i have grown up."
Why do girl's care about the make up so much,
the amount of friends they have,
dwell on what they're wearing the next day,
and care so much about other people's lives?
it's depressing to me.
i've made a goal to just not talk about other people anymore.
i don't want to sound like those rude catty girl's talking about other people.
just worry about your own life!
don't freak out, gossip, and spread rumors if someone gets pregnant.
they made a mistake.
i'm sure you have made plenty as well.
don't freak out when two people broke up.
it happened for a reason,
and clearly they weren't meant to be.
and most of all.
PLEASE don't freak out when someone comes back
from serving their mission early.
You have no place to place judgment on people like that.
all the time,
the missionary coming back is just struggling with something.
just like the rest of us..
I just wish everyone would realize,
people will criticize and look you up and down,
and completely place a judgment as to what kind of person you are.
but the only thing that matters, is what god thinks of you.
so quit trying to please other people by trying to know everyone's business.
it makes me sad to know that some people just ruin their lives
caught up in other people's lives.
worry about how YOU'RE going to get to heaven, or the higher place,
rather than someone else's faults.
As goes for me and gossiping,
i really think i've done a super super good job at it!
but if you're reading this, and i did something to bother you,
please let me know. send me a message, comment, text me, or just call me.
i would love to apologize to you for whatever.
i don't want anyone thinking of the person i'm not.
thank you for reading.
mostly girl's in high school (no offense to my younger friends).
girls who think they're so much better than everyone else.
girls who say terrible rude remarks towards other people to intentionally hurt, embarrass, or humiliate them.
girls who give the rest of us a bad name.
yesterday, my room mate showed me some awful things said on facebook.
girl's fighting with one another.
rude remarks,
and treating each other opposite of human beings.
tonight at work was depressing to me.
the high school game got over, and cheerleaders, players,
and all sorts of friends came in to get some yogurt.
as i swept and wiped tables among them,
there was like 4 or 5 different groups of friends.
they were ALL gossiping, talking badly about someone rather than their own lives.
to be honest, it doesn't make sense to me.
i know we all do it.
i'm not saying i don't.
we all gossip,
we all talk bad about others,
but it HURTS others.
what's the point?
It amazes to me to see high school seniors, and think,
"holy cow..i have grown up."
Why do girl's care about the make up so much,
the amount of friends they have,
dwell on what they're wearing the next day,
and care so much about other people's lives?
it's depressing to me.
i've made a goal to just not talk about other people anymore.
i don't want to sound like those rude catty girl's talking about other people.
just worry about your own life!
don't freak out, gossip, and spread rumors if someone gets pregnant.
they made a mistake.
i'm sure you have made plenty as well.
don't freak out when two people broke up.
it happened for a reason,
and clearly they weren't meant to be.
and most of all.
PLEASE don't freak out when someone comes back
from serving their mission early.
You have no place to place judgment on people like that.
all the time,
the missionary coming back is just struggling with something.
just like the rest of us..
I just wish everyone would realize,
people will criticize and look you up and down,
and completely place a judgment as to what kind of person you are.
but the only thing that matters, is what god thinks of you.
so quit trying to please other people by trying to know everyone's business.
it makes me sad to know that some people just ruin their lives
caught up in other people's lives.
worry about how YOU'RE going to get to heaven, or the higher place,
rather than someone else's faults.
As goes for me and gossiping,
i really think i've done a super super good job at it!
but if you're reading this, and i did something to bother you,
please let me know. send me a message, comment, text me, or just call me.
i would love to apologize to you for whatever.
i don't want anyone thinking of the person i'm not.
thank you for reading.
xoxo
ahh! i love you!! this post is DEAD ON!!
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xoxo
Looks like you're realizing that what you do and say is the most important thing, not what others say and do. How you vizuallize yourself is what is most important!!! LOVE THY SELF FIRST!! I love you--- :-))
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